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Stress

Posted on April 10, 2024April 10, 2024 by Pam

Did you know that the word ‘stress’ is recognizable in many languages? Why is that? That is because it comes from the Latin words ‘strictus’ (which means tight or narrow) and ‘stringere’ which means to tighten. The romantic languages source Latin. As I have failed to be proficient in the Italian language, I understand it is easier if you know Spanish. So many words are similar. Stress in physics refers to the interaction between a force and the resistance to counter that force. I’m always disappointed when a rubber band breaks. That happens often enough because I keep old things around. I don’t see the word ‘stress’ anywhere in the Bible but it is an international concept. The other thought is that something that stresses me may not stress you. It is a relative term. Synonyms are pressure, strain, and tension. Those may be in the Bible as I think about Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane – sweating tears of blood. This is a real thing called hematidrosis, a rare condition in which the capillary blood vessels that feed the sweat glands rupture under extreme physical or emotional stress. This description also uses the term anxiety. I think of some hard things in my life and none went this far but we all have stress.

I don’t think we can solve everything that causes stress but we know a guy. That is casual language for God is not surprised by the things that are hard. He sympathizes with us. He wants to give us good gifts but we are in a broken world that we deal with until Heaven. It is important to mention that there is good stress (Eustress) and bad stress (Distress). Eu – is a Greek prefix. There are innumerable good stresses like: study for a good grade to progress you to your desired goal, run daily to stay healthy, and listen patiently because you love your child, etc. Good stress for a good outcome. I flubbed at this last evening on my way to a class. There are two turning lanes and the car beside me changed from lane 2 to land 1. Guess which lane I was in. It was a close call and I didn’t even have a chance to honk my horn. So I defer to the car, now in front of me, and, in my upset, thought, …now should I honk my horn? Tailgate? Wave my arm?, etc. Then I thought, that bad driver might be in my class. I don’t mind being disgusted with someone I don’t know, but the thought that I might know them lowered the stress and response to stress. They weren’t. I think I handle stress better with the people I know.

The good news is not about being self-sufficient but that in our stress we can rely on Jesus for His all-sufficiency. Think about potential stress when David approached Goliath. There is no mention of how David was feeling. How did he do it? He trusted in God. God will allow more than we can handle because He is a problem solver and no, sometimes we can’t handle it.

"Thoughts from a genuinely evaluative mind."

Pam writes so that must make her a writer. Recently retired, she can now fill days with family, friends, missions, writing, creating, and showing up for whomever needs her. Pam loves the Lord and people. The Bible is God’s love letter to us (and who does not need more love) so she studies and writes some more.

Pam lives in the Pacific Northwest but was home-grown in Southern California. She attended San Jose Bible College and finished a Bachelor of Science degree in Biochemistry at UCLA. She became a teacher, then a Research and Development Chemist, then she built two successful real estate businesses in two states. Pam also pursued study at Fuller Theological Seminary and just completed six months serving in missions abroad.

Pam has two amazing children, married to two precious in-laws, and five sweet grandchildren. Pam is a gifted connector and communicator and the Northwest has the perfect climate for staying inside and writing – or baking! She has been writing since a wee one and is currently converting many years of blogging, by topic, into ten books. The first is a collection from 2011 titled, Beautiful Enough. The second is a yearly day-timer titled, Weekly Planner - Lessons in Life, Glory, and Grace. Number three is in progress with the working title, Christmas Today.

Ten facts about Pam in no particular order:

  1. On the team that developed an insulation for the Alaskan oil pipeline.
  2. Loves looking at homes, decorating, and has flipped five homes.
  3. Likes being tall.
  4. Films have helped define her vocabulary.
  5. Comes from Colorado tenement farmers with history traced to Wales.
  6. Was lost but now is found.
  7. Baking makes her happy – as does eating sweets with coffee, of course.
  8. She thinks mission work is the most important work in the world.
  9. The church started in Rome so she is learning Italian.
  10. Pam is a work in progress!

“I will be your God throughout your lifetime - until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you.” Isaiah 46:4

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