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A Tribute to Cousin Susie

Posted on October 20, 2024October 21, 2024 by Pam

My cousin Susie passed away, unexpectedly, last month. I think it was September 16, 2024. I had arrived in Prague on the 9th and had made very exciting plans to see her in December, in the Baltimore area, enroute to home near Seattle. Susie was my age and I expected to grow old together. Not together geographically but held together by our mutual family, affection, values and appreciation for each other. We were from the same era and only became closely acquainted after her move to Olympia, WA to take care of her aging parents. I saw her through a lot of that loss as she saw me through my losses. One in particular was a person who had made my life miserable. She is the only person who told me she had a tarp and a rope in the trunk of her car – “Where is he?” That was said because she had a gift for humor and empathy. She was a widow with more friends than most. She had only moved to Baltimore a year earlier but I was so excited to see her in her mother-apartment in the basement of her son’s house. Her dream was to be near her grandkids who she doted on. Susie was a crafter. I have a beautiful lap blanket she made to comfort me when my life felt miserable. So the trip will happen but with a different agenda. I hope to grieve a bit with her family and share many of the lovely stories I have of Susie. She was actually a second cousin (I think) as her father and mine were first cousins. She lived her life with me as if she had been my sister. We laughed a lot and never ran out of stories at our ~monthly lunch dates at the Cheesecake Factory at SouthCenter plaza. Because I’m not living my usual life doing the usual, this has not sunk in. The world without Susie does not compute. The last thing about Susie is that her love language was gift giving. We would always remember each other in small ways because we share that gift. What I can’t know is that I talked about Jesus all of the time and she did not say much. She was too good to not be a believer in the love of God. Do I assume too much or is God much bigger and more real to her than I had known?

"Thoughts from a genuinely evaluative mind."

Pam writes so that must make her a writer. Recently retired, she can now fill days with family, friends, missions, writing, creating, and showing up for whomever needs her. Pam loves the Lord and people. The Bible is God’s love letter to us (and who does not need more love) so she studies and writes some more.

Pam lives in the Pacific Northwest but was home-grown in Southern California. She attended San Jose Bible College and finished a Bachelor of Science degree in Biochemistry at UCLA. She became a teacher, then a Research and Development Chemist, then she built two successful real estate businesses in two states. Pam also pursued study at Fuller Theological Seminary and just completed six months serving in missions abroad.

Pam has two amazing children, married to two precious in-laws, and five sweet grandchildren. Pam is a gifted connector and communicator and the Northwest has the perfect climate for staying inside and writing – or baking! She has been writing since a wee one and is currently converting many years of blogging, by topic, into ten books. The first is a collection from 2011 titled, Beautiful Enough. The second is a yearly day-timer titled, Weekly Planner - Lessons in Life, Glory, and Grace. Number three is in progress with the working title, Christmas Today.

Ten facts about Pam in no particular order:

  1. On the team that developed an insulation for the Alaskan oil pipeline.
  2. Loves looking at homes, decorating, and has flipped five homes.
  3. Likes being tall.
  4. Films have helped define her vocabulary.
  5. Comes from Colorado tenement farmers with history traced to Wales.
  6. Was lost but now is found.
  7. Baking makes her happy – as does eating sweets with coffee, of course.
  8. She thinks mission work is the most important work in the world.
  9. The church started in Rome so she is learning Italian.
  10. Pam is a work in progress!

“I will be your God throughout your lifetime - until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you.” Isaiah 46:4

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