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Advice on Growing

Posted on October 26, 2025October 27, 2025 by Pam

I read a fascinating Epoch Times article on Mark Twain where he gives advice on growing old. The first thing I recommend is a forced period of rest and introspection. That would be fasting. Less seems more the older I get. Twain had other ideas. His eating habits were coffee and bread at 8:00 AM then nothing until dinner at 7:30 PM. I would fail as I love a good snack and that is not quite fasting. For all of his good advice, this is the funniest, “I have made it a rule never to smoke more than one cigar at a time…”. We choose our vices. We are still moving but maybe not shaking as we mature. Growing is a directional word. We grow older but cannot grow younger. We grow taller than gravity takes a toll. We grow richer than poorer over and over. Aging can cause dissatisfaction, disorientation, discouragement, dread, disappointment, disinterest, distance, and distraction. Or we can find satisfaction, orientation, courage, hope, satisfaction, enthusiasm, closeness, and engagement. They say our hearts grow when the second baby arrives and that is more than true. A garden grows with so little effort. Another thought about growing older is you have done so many things that a monastic life of quiet begins to sound good. While I was recently touring some ancient ruins I wrote the following, “The ancient of days withheld their praise and looking for reasons to fall, left in ruins, picturing the past, they lost today and all”. We ask God for purpose and energy when we have raised the littles and served so many. Which direction should we go next? I Pet 3:18 has an idea on emphasizing spiritual maturity and progress, urging believers to grow in the grace and knowledge of Christ. I believe God will provide enough help and direction for today. Otherwise these days may lead to a turbulent landing.

"Thoughts from a genuinely evaluative mind."

Pam writes so that must make her a writer. Recently retired, she can now fill days with family, friends, missions, writing, creating, and showing up for whomever needs her. Pam loves the Lord and people. The Bible is God’s love letter to us (and who does not need more love) so she studies and writes some more.

Pam lives in the Pacific Northwest but was home-grown in Southern California. She attended San Jose Bible College and finished a Bachelor of Science degree in Biochemistry at UCLA. She became a teacher, then a Research and Development Chemist, then she built two successful real estate businesses in two states. Pam also pursued study at Fuller Theological Seminary and just completed six months serving in missions abroad.

Pam has two amazing children, married to two precious in-laws, and five sweet grandchildren. Pam is a gifted connector and communicator and the Northwest has the perfect climate for staying inside and writing – or baking! She has been writing since a wee one and is currently converting many years of blogging, by topic, into ten books. The first is a collection from 2011 titled, Beautiful Enough. The second is a yearly day-timer titled, Weekly Planner - Lessons in Life, Glory, and Grace. Number three is in progress with the working title, Christmas Today.

Ten facts about Pam in no particular order:

  1. On the team that developed an insulation for the Alaskan oil pipeline.
  2. Loves looking at homes, decorating, and has flipped five homes.
  3. Likes being tall.
  4. Films have helped define her vocabulary.
  5. Comes from Colorado tenement farmers with history traced to Wales.
  6. Was lost but now is found.
  7. Baking makes her happy – as does eating sweets with coffee, of course.
  8. She thinks mission work is the most important work in the world.
  9. The church started in Rome so she is learning Italian.
  10. Pam is a work in progress!

“I will be your God throughout your lifetime - until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you.” Isaiah 46:4

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