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I Have Been to the Forest

Posted on July 20, 2023July 20, 2023 by Pam

This line from the film E.T. has been rumbling around in my head. It is the scene where E.T. and Elliot are connected in an isolation medical tent. The adult is communicating that he also knows about E.T. and has seen evidence in the forest. He means to connect with Elliot so that he can save them. I saw the forest for myself this week. In the film it is a place of understanding, rescue, recovery, and redemption. It can also be a dark, confusing, and scary place. I mean, after all, the forest had its alien elements.

There is a Chinese Proverb, “The gem cannot be polished without friction nor man perfected without trials.” We go to the forest and hash out disappointments, family, and friendships. These can be hard stories with misunderstandings. People change. People fall out of love or aren’t really who they said they were. Medical issues can affect someone’s thinking. People grow apart or hear things that were never said. Friction builds or breaks relationship. We are in the forest hoping for goodness and around the corner comes a wallop out of no-where. Being right or winning seem to become the only thing that matters to us – not grace or understanding. Psalm 28:7, NLV, “The Lord is my strength and my safe cover. My heart trusts in Him, and I am helped. So my heart is full of joy. I will thank Him with my song.” I can go to the forest and try and hope again.

Steve Hermon sends out a daily email with todays proverb and verse (above). Today he sent, “When you encounter difficulties and contradictions, do not try to break them, but bend them with gentleness and time.” – St Francis de Sales. Ephesians 4:2, The Voice, says, “Be humble. Be gentle. Be patient. Tolerate one another in an atmosphere thick with love.” Wishing your forest is thick today with love and not all of the other.

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Pam writes so that must make her a writer. Recently retired, she can now fill days with family, friends, missions, writing, creating, and showing up for whomever needs her. Pam loves the Lord and people. The Bible is God’s love letter to us (and who does not need more love) so she studies and writes some more.

Pam lives in the Pacific Northwest but was home-grown in Southern California. She attended San Jose Bible College and finished a Bachelor of Science degree in Biochemistry at UCLA. She became a teacher, then a Research and Development Chemist, then she built two successful real estate businesses in two states. Pam also pursued study at Fuller Theological Seminary and just completed six months serving in missions abroad.

Pam has two amazing children, married to two precious in-laws, and five sweet grandchildren. Pam is a gifted connector and communicator and the Northwest has the perfect climate for staying inside and writing – or baking! She has been writing since a wee one and is currently converting many years of blogging, by topic, into ten books. The first is a collection from 2011 titled, Beautiful Enough. The second is a yearly day-timer titled, Weekly Planner - Lessons in Life, Glory, and Grace. Number three is in progress with the working title, Christmas Today.

Ten facts about Pam in no particular order:

  1. On the team that developed an insulation for the Alaskan oil pipeline.
  2. Loves looking at homes, decorating, and has flipped five homes.
  3. Likes being tall.
  4. Films have helped define her vocabulary.
  5. Comes from Colorado tenement farmers with history traced to Wales.
  6. Was lost but now is found.
  7. Baking makes her happy – as does eating sweets with coffee, of course.
  8. She thinks mission work is the most important work in the world.
  9. The church started in Rome so she is learning Italian.
  10. Pam is a work in progress!

“I will be your God throughout your lifetime - until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you.” Isaiah 46:4

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